Relating with a Godly purpose

 

7 ways to have a meaningful relationship

In recent years there has been much debate about whether a person should date before marriage or just court the person they intend to marry. According to Webster’s Dictionary, dating can be defined as an engagement to go out socially with another person, often out of romantic interest. Courtship alternatively can be defined as a man’s courting of a woman; seeking the affections of a woman (usually in the hope of marriage) – Webster Dictionary. Or in more simple terms dating is perceived as a fun social outing, which could lead to marriage and courtship is perceived as a social outing where both parties have an intention of marriage in their minds from the outset.   Campaigners for both camps lay down strong arguments as to the virtues of their particular viewpoint. Sometimes to the extent that some singles are confused as to what to do if they desire to enter into a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. Would I be perceived as being non-spiritual if I date someone? What if I enter into courtship and it doesn’t work out because I don’t know them? What is wrong if I date someone just to get to know them first before I commit to marriage? Is courtship similar to an arranged marriage, as both parties do not necessarily know each other before the nuptials? These are some of the questions asked.   In this blog I am not going to justify the position or indeed analyse the pros and cons of either lobby but instead I want to suggest another dimension to having a meaningful relationship by going above the arguments and by saying that singles should relate with a godly purpose.   Everything God does has a purpose; a specific end result He had in mind. E.g. He gave Adam Eve in order to complete him. Dr Myles Munroe has said where there is no purpose abuse is inevitable.   The argument therefore follows; if a single does not understand why they want to have a godly relationship or indeed understand what a relationship means, abuse will surely transpire. This could lead to pain, disillusionment, discouragement, bitterness and hurt. Relationships do not have to lead to these negative outcomes. They can be positive if we relate to one another with a godly purpose. In other words, we should approach relationships with the mind of Christ.         Following are seven ways to have a meaningful relationship.  

1. UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF RELATIONSHIP  

Many single Christians are entering into relationships, which in reality they should never have begun because they were unaware of what having a Godly relationship involves.   The Bible says:   And the Lord give thee understanding in all things. 2 Timothy 2:7b   A solid foundation can only come when a true understanding of the meaning of relationship forms its basis.   With such an understanding, a relationship not only becomes more meaningful it is also more likely to last because it is built on Godly wisdom, principles and understanding.  

2. DEFINE THE RELATIONSHIP  

Before embarking on any relationship, ask yourself some questions. For example, why do I want to enter into this relationship? Where will it lead? Is God involved in my decision-making? Did I hear from God or is my flesh speaking/motivating me?   Defining the relationship helps you to determine your own personal expectations and will help you to shape those of the person you wish to relate to. Once you know what you want it is best to communicate that to the person you wish to relate with in order to avoid unwarranted conflict later.  

3. PRAY THE RELATIONSHIP THROUGH   It is so important when you have to make minor and major decisions in life that you approach them with the mind of Christ. The Word of God commands us not to lean on our own understanding but to acknowledge God in all our ways, so that He can make our path straight.   Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. Proverbs 3:5   When we pray we are having an intimate relationship with God. It is in the communion with Him that you are able to know His mind (the Word of God) on matters pertaining to your life. Through prayer you will, in your connection to God, be able to choose appropriately, speak correctly and conduct yourself in a godly manner. Intimacy with God in prayer will also help to guide you through the complexity of relationships and enable you to relate to another person in a stress free manner.  

4. KNOW THYSELF   A relationship cannot be wholesome if one of the parties in the relationship does not see themselves as separate, unique and whole. Where this does not occur in a relationship, one of the parties will start to feel drained by the other as they are relating to a Very Draining Person or a Very Needing Person. To avoid being the person that weighs down the person with whom you want to have a meaningful relationship with, you need to know yourself – your strengths and weakness. Simply, you need to know what makes you ‘tick’. It is in the understanding of who you are as a child of God and as a human being that you can relate more effectively with another person.  

5. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON WELL  

Sometimes when couples relate, they interact on a superficial basis in an attempt to present a positive side of themselves. The fear of being open and vulnerable to another person causes some to play a charade of surface level relationship right up to the time of commitment to marriage. Once the couple cross over into marriage, their eyes ‘open’ and the rose tinted glasses are removed. They have to spend time and make an extra effort to work through issues which could have been dealt with prior to marriage.   Couples looking to have a meaningful relationship should not major on the minors but focus on the fundamentals which will form the basis of their marriage e.g. spiritual life, family relationships, approach to money, child rearing, each others vision, etc.   Success will come when you know and understand each other.  

 6. COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE  

Talking and listening are key tools for anyone desiring to have a meaningful relationship. If you are able to talk freely to another person, who is not going to negatively use what you share with them, it is a good indication that you will have a meaningful relationship with them.   When you talk you are able to share your heart. The person with whom you are talking to, through the things you say, your thought processes, tone of voice etc. is able, if they listen with the ear of the Spirit, to ‘know’ the person you really are. Listening therefore is as important as talking. If talking is the main focus and not listening as well, the relationship is in danger of being shallow. Listening allows you to get to hear what is really in the mind of another person. When both are done in tandem, a couple stand a better chance of their relationship surviving the storms of life.  

7. BE DETERMINED NOT TO COMPROMISE  

Sin brought about the schism in the relationship between Adam and Eve. Prior to the fruit incident, Adam related freely with Eve. They were naked and not ashamed. However, once the fruit had been eaten their relationship changed with each other and with God. The blame game began and they started to play hide and seek with God.   Relationships today are still undergoing the same experience once they move from relating God’s way to introducing sin into their relationship e.g. sleeping together, heavy petting etc. thereby compromising their position in Christ.   Once a couple determines not to compromise on their relationship despite temptations, societal pressures and personal emotions, they will triumph through Christ in every area of their relationship.  

Finally, whilst all of the above are important, God must be the central focus for any couple desiring a meaningful relationship.   God centred relationships can never fail. When a couple focus on God as the binding force in their relationship, they will have a confidence that their relationship cannot be broken. God will bring about a meaningful relationship because all issues of life can be found in His Word. Solutions can be obtained, healing and deliverance can also be achieved.   Therefore, be confident in your faith in God. As you trust and rely on Him, you will have meaningful Godly relationships.  

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I get the shivers just thinking about some of these blind dates that I have been on. Online dating removes many of the negative unknowns while allowing you to meet some great people that you would never have met otherwise. It has become so popular over the last decade that today alone there is numerous reality TV shows dealing with the subject of online dating. After you have spent some time in front of your PC communicating with a person, you will want to meet him or her face to face. Do not ignore these opportunities in improving your personal ads. Other singles and prospective matches will take a look at your ads longer if you have video or audio clips in your ad Personals ads with images of you have a response of 80 percent, but ads with a video clip or audio clip (or both) have a 97% response.

Your first order of business, as stated above, will be getting matched up with one or more dating sites that fit you and your needs. The questions below should help you narrow things down.

Do you friends consider you a matchmaker? Do you have at least one couple you are friends with whom you set up? If you care about couples and are the matchmaking type, you could be next in line for your own business.

Dating married man? What are the issues involved? Well, you have finally made the right decision to look for a partner using a US dating service, but you don’t really know anything about internet dating in USA or about offline dating service. I relate to this option as a financial one - Let’s say we have two markets and you want to choose the best one for your needs.

How Can You Tell If You Are Being Deceived?

Since the advent of the Internet, online dating seems to be the next generation’s way of falling in love and getting married. With online dating, it seems that no one needs to be alone anymore. Everybody is bound to find the right man or woman through the help of online dating services. Best of all, online dating provides additional services that no other services can provide; and, because of the many interactive features that most sites give, more and more people are being enticed to try it out.

One of the greatest advantages of online dating is that it gives the person anonymity. Since, other people are not fully aware of how an individual looks and what kind of person they are dealing with; anonymity becomes a powerful tool in the process of interaction with other people. With anonymity, most people are able to say what they would never disclose in person. In addition, most people have a lot of time analyzing their dates first before they decide to meet them in person. In this way, they get to know who the person is, his or her personality, or what does he or she looks like even if it is only through pictures.

However, anonymity can also be too powerful tool to gain a person’s attention through deceptions and lies.

Therefore, if you wish to know whether the other person is deceiving you, here are some tips.

1. Be wary of those who exaggerate or evade things that are too obvious not to notice.

This could mean that the other person is trying to hide something. People can be very deceiving online, so it pays to be aware and look for clues about his/her truthfulness. Moreover, exaggeration may suggest that the person trying to cover something. Do they try to change the topic at once? Be wary.

2. Inconsistency

If your date tells the same story several times and you pick up discrepancies in the tale, suspect lies. There are a number of online dating web sites over the net to choose from. Online dating web site is derived from traditional dating companies that have evolved into an online service of providing dating services to the public via the internet.

There are many people in the world that are looking for that special someone to share their life with. In fact, as a counselor, I meet with countless people everyday who are looking for love and are just not sure where to find it. I have learned that people are somewhat desperate to find true love and that they will often go to extreme measures to find someone special.

Don’t rush into a face to face meeting - take your time, chat up a storm and get to know each other. Is the person on the other end being honest, or do you get the feeling they are just saying what you want to hear. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be attractive and representing you that way. The way someone presents he or she says a lot about him or her. If you’re browsing through the online personals and see someone that catches your attention, the next step would to be to contact them, and ask for a picture if there is not already one.

Churches often stress the benefits of love, marriage, and family life, and Christians are encouraged to form relationships with others. Many Christian singles face the reality that meeting other eligible Christians can be quite difficult. Those in small churches often find it hard to meet enough single people, while singles in large church communities feel under the spotlight, or find it hard get to know people well.

3. If the other person does not reveal too much of his or her personal information or anything about him or her, chances are, he or she may be deceiving their online dates.

In reality, there is no harm on not revealing anything about certain information. In fact, it is one way of dating safely online. However, there are situations wherein an individual has to know something about his or her date just to gain a little knowledge about the other person. This usually includes basic information like name, age, likes or dislikes, and other light information that could give the concerned person some solid basis of the person. So, for people who do not reveal much about who they are, it means that they are hiding something.

4. Intuitions

It may be too vague or too amusing to believe in intuition. Nevertheless, there are many cases and stories wherein people who rely on their intuition usually get positive results. Intuition is something that is known to exist without the support of rational basis. Hence, if you feel that your online date is not telling the truth, then, chances are you are right.

Experts say that through intuition, the individual’s subconscious thought can identify inconsistencies that are not easily noticed. This can be very helpful especially when somebody is a skilled liar.

5. It would be better for some people to ask their online date to have a chat using a web cam. In this way, they will both see each other’s looks, personalities, and other things that can only be verifiable through web cams.

Here, an individual can detect a person who is trying to deceive him or her when he or she does not want to use a web cam or if there are just too many excuses. The bottom line is that if the other person has nothing to lie about, then, everything must be kept simple and straightforward. There should be no beating around the bush while answering questions.

In reality, online dating that is free from any deceptions should be simple and based on truth, no more, no less.

Devise a simple dating plan. Meeting singles through personal ads, online dating sites and in the bar scene can expose you to a small percentage of undesirables. To avoid wasting your time, conduct thorough phone interviews with your prospective dates. Invest five to 10 hours of phone dating time first. If your new to online dating you may have allot of questions going through your mind about finding a date online. You have maybe heard things like its not safe or that you wont find a long lasting relationship online. Lets look at my top 5 myths of online dating.

Aspiring members are asked to file an application, and are required to meet the guidelines, and requirements that are set by the online dating service. Some online dating services are more discerning than others.

It’s often hard to find someone in your local parish or church to spend the rest of your life with. Especially for young people, who have a very hard time finding someone of their age group in the local church or synagogue.

We must remember that the consequences of successful dating are mainly the bliss of having another person to be with and enjoy mutual things with; therefore the road that leads to this outcome should be equally joyous and satisfying.

Nowadays one can find a lot of dating sites on the web, which help to find the right partner for us. Romance is great and when that romance is well backed up by money then the result is a sense of security coupled with a feeling of total bliss. These days everybody wants to be successful and if one cannot find success on his or her own then the idea seems to be of falling in love with a successful one. The world is flooded with millionaires and billionaires today and finding a very affluent person is not difficult at all. However the process of identifying and courting one is a lengthy process. The rich and famous seem to have a closed circle and mostly mingle and socialize among themselves , so for the not so successful ordinary suitor getting to meet these lucky people, leave alone making them fall in love, seems to be a rather daunting task.

Men are always attracted to beautiful girls and attractive women always seem to get the right guy in their life. There are obviously exceptions to this rule but this rule applies to the majority of men and women. With men the general trend seems to be of first being impressed with the beauty of a woman first than the fact whether she is loaded with money. The women generally look for a sense of security in their relationships, be it emotional, physical or financial. So having a healthy bank account is a prime requisite for any man if he wishes to find the girl of his dreams to love or to marry.

After all which women doesn’t want to live in a swanky mansion surrounded by servants ,ride a fancy car, have access to swanky jewelry and live a carefree life without having to work at all for a living? The answer is, not many. This general statement however should not encompass the female species as a whole as there are exceptions to this, as some women still would like to date or marry someone who is a good soul mate rather than a rich ego maniac who’s only credible worthiness is his huge bank balance. There are many men also who would rather marry someone who is accomplished and wealthy instead of a good soul mate or an ideal partner.

There are adult dating sites to the sites, which specialize in celebrity dating. All you need is an internet connection and a good credit card to back you up to get started on finding the right rich love. Fantasies are made real by these internet love gurus who promise to do all your homework like identifying selecting and introducing the right partner to you. Everything is made to order these days and when the idea is to buy love with money then there is nothing wrong in using that money to date a millionaire.

You don’t have to go all out and be extravagant with your significant other all the time in order to have a memorable experience; sometimes the little things truly counts for a lot, as long as you give it to your partner with love.

You can even have a blast with dates under ten dollars! If you find this hard to believe, try out these ideas for a truly memorable (not to mention affordable) date.

You can go unconventional on your date and sign up for volunteer work; this allows you to give back to your community, and you really get to spend quality time with each other while you help other people out.

Charity can bring out the best side in a person, and you may just find qualities in your partner, which can increase your love for him or her even more. Depending on your inclinations, you can sign up for blood donation, feed animals in a local shelter, or prepare meals at a soup kitchen.

You can also go out of the box, but in a rather naughty way, by renting adult videos and watch it with your partner. If your partner isn’t too keen on this, try explaining to him or her that watching adult videos is actually something that the both of you actually haven’t tried out as yet, and it wouldn’t hurt to do it now. Besides, adult videos may rekindle an unexpected intimate moment that is surely a boost to your romantic life together.

Go out and exercise together. This is a no-brainer; you can take a jog around the neighborhood every morning, or you can rent a video and work it out in your own living room.

Enough exercise preps you up for an active day, and ensures that you stay energetic up to bedtime. Since mail-order exercise videos can be quite pricey, you can rent or borrow them just to stay within the set budget limit. If you already own a copy, then you won’t have to spend a single cent.

Go to the park and be carefree - fly a kite. Yes, even at your age, you still have the right to be childlike and throw away everything in careless abandon. You can frolic about in the park, or sit down at a picnic mat and enjoy a homemade snack. Be prepared to spend the afternoon in If you’ve experienced the inevitable drag in your dating life, be relieved that everyone experiences this situation, whether a person is in a gay relationship or otherwise. You may be hanging out with the guy you’re with for some time now, and the feeling of being trapped in the relationship is slowly creeping in.

Unless you have undisputable reasons for feeling so, it is probably a transitional phase, which you will get over with, consequently moving into a deeper bond with your significant other. Otherwise, there is always something you can do about the feeling until it tides over, and it would be to your benefit if you try these tips out.

You probably met your hubby at a gay nightclub, in the same way as most other gay people do, hooking up with a prospect with ‘the look’. At this point, everything positive about the other guy has been magnified, and his flaws are considered minute in comparison.

You start with a casual conversation, and eventually come up with the consensus that there’s something worth pursuing in the connection. The nightclub becomes your regular rendezvous point, and eventually you both move on with visiting other places in each other’s company.

Here’s where the itch starts. Too much familiarity may be a letdown, and may even breed contempt; the most potent antidote to this is constant communication. It is the key to all successful relationships, and you couldn’t spare on it with yours.

If you still feel that you need to reserve for yourself some personal space and time alone, ask your partner to consider the prospect of going your own separate ways (at least for the meantime); visit clubs apart from each other, meeting new people and making friends which are outside your intimate circle.

If you haven’t seen each other in a month due to this arrangement, it might help to renew the communication ties, at least via phone; the sudden realization that you’ve both been apart for so long may spark the passion flames anew.

Understand that the feeling may be a transitional one, or the relationship itself is just a phase. Either way, be prepared to roll with the punches, and ride with the peaks which gay life may provide. If you bear a phobic tendency with long-term commitments for fear of a stagnant and boring social life, do remember that you can still be adventurous even if you don’t breakup with your partner.

There are plenty of diversions which you can involve yourself into, like watching gay videos. You can even invite your partner or some of your friends to watch gay videos at home. If you choose to take an exclusively gay cruise, gay videos are a staple onboard perk.

Go and travel to new places, do something different, like paddling out on a kayak or going out on a road trip; as long as you’re doing something new, there’s something for you and your partner to get involved into without getting too much of each other’s presence. The experience can even encourage the relationship to move onto more developed stages, and you may realize that you’re not as much of a commitment-phobic as you think.ndless conversation with someone you love, but bring along a book or two just in case.

If these tips may sound a little like your being a tightwad with dates, be sure to cut the impression by going on a fancy date with your hubby on occasion.

The purpose of these is to maintain the connection with consistent periods of quality time with each other, time to interact and talk about the things that matter the most. So whether you’re poring over board game instructions, rearranging the furniture in your apartment, or checking out the latest releases at the video store, make every moment count - your partner will surely appreciate the effort.

There are many people, especially those belonging to the old school of thought, who believe that romance is a domain that belongs to the girls only. This is a wrong notion. While there is no doubt that girls love to be adored and be romanced, it is the same for men too. There are many opportunities for men to announce to a girl that they love him and there are ample ways to show off their romance too.

In fact I would state that there is a bit of discrimination. Look at the Valentine Day cards. All are designed for men to proclaim their romance to a girl. There are hardly any cards that allow the women to tell about their love. A casual look at the cards will show that they are made keeping the feminine gender in mind. So how should to go ahead and romance a man? Here are the 3 best ways to romance a man that every woman should know!

1. Romance A Man By Using His Emotion

While women love to be romanced with trinkets, jewelry, flowers and chocolates, men like to be romanced with emotion. In fact, this is one of the best ways to romance a man. These emotions can be proclaimed in quite a number of ways. Suppose he loves a particular brand of chewing gum. The next time you meet him, make sure that you have some of those chewing gums with you and pass on the same to him. These little acts go a long way in romancing a man and making him feel that he is cared for.

2. Romance A Man By Paying Attention To The Small Things

He might not like the pimples on your face. While it’s okay that you spend time to remove the same, there is no need to announce the same to him or to show off that you are removing the same for him. Do it discreetly and when he is not about. Applying the acne removing cream in his presence is not a wise idea.

He will find out for himself and at that time, your unblemished face will go a long way in showing off your romance for him. So it is better to let him discover these joys instead of proclaiming the same to him. Let it be a surprise to him.

3. Romance A Man By Understanding His Views On Romance

There are many men who act like children. For them a romantic thing might well be playing a round of cards with his woman. Never impose yourself and your views. You might think romance is having a candlelight dinner, but it is not necessary that he looks at romance from the same angle. Try to find out what is his definition of romance and try to adjust yourself to his views.

This will go a long way to show that you really care for him. The best way to romance a man is to do it the way he perceives romance. Never try to push your views. As your romance builds, he too will try to find out what is your idea of romance and be sure that he too will reciprocate.

Online dating is going to be more & more popular on the internet. Worldwide, people are growing their relations for love, romance, friendship and even getting married through online dating services / free online dating websites, just it was being done in the real-world. Online relationship needs tendency towards grow over time. Given below are the good Tips to make you successful:

 

1. First thing is to choose a good website offering online dating services with lower cost or even free online dating website. Register with that dating website and put your profile in details, if you would like some pics may also be uploaded, which will catch the eyes of the other members and interested personals will contact you via e-mail through the website of which you are a member.

 

2. Doing step 1, you would see that many other members, who are interested in you, after reading your profile, will contact you. You must see and read the profiles of contacting persons very carefully and after you are sure that the person is really interested in making relations with you, contact that person and get in touch on regular basis. Treat each other’s time with good respect. If you feel you are in right direction, you must move on.

 

3. Both of you need to feel right and if one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. That is why don’t rush for. You must take some time to learn more about each other and must develop trust first.

 

4. Each other must respect privacy. In the start, don’t share digital photos or personal email addresses online e.g. if your online date personal sent you the information in full confidence.

 

5. Each other should share offline and online special fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

 

It is hoped that adopting the above tips will tend your online dating relationships.

 

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Men thought that it is okay to buy women gifts. Or so they thought.

The concept of giving gifts to women is limited to those who are already engaged in a relationship. If in case that a man has just been acquainted with a woman, it is not, in most cases, ethical to give her gifts. You can give her everything but not gifts of any kind.

Generally, woman regard the act of receiving and giving gifts as something that is extremely special. Contrary to most popular belief, women are not so interested with the kinds of gifts that they receive. What matters most to them is that whenever they receive gifts, they will take it on a more personal level and would think that the reason why somebody gave it to them is that they are special.

Hence, if ever some men want to give gifts to women, it would be better to prolong the desire and wait until the appropriate time comes.

Personal insight

Women love to receive gifts. Surveys show that women love to receive gifts because they feel that they are special. Nearly 33% of women contend that they love receiving gifts like jewelries and flower because these things tell them how they are treated by the person who gave them.

However, this does not count the gifts that women receive from people whom they have just been acquainted with or they barely know. It is not that they despise the act but some women believed that gifts are special, and so, it is but proper to be given on special occasions or situations.

Even if gifts are material things, men should keep the process on the verge of maintaining the essence of the act to maintain a level of distinction among people who have learned to love each other.

Hence, if a man has the propensity to immediately give gifts to his date earlier than three months of dating her, there is a great tendency that the value of gift giving would be lessened.

The point here is that most women do not want to be dominated by men just because they have started to accept gifts from them. Some women feel that the top reason why men give gifts to women is that it is their way of luring her to advance to a more intimate relationship faster.

Giving gifts to women should not instigate a sense of predictability. This means that if men were inclined to give gifts to women at an early phase of the acquaintance, it would make them predictable. The fact is that the society has long established the premise the give and take relationship, wherein the gift giver expects something in return.

For this reason, women are more comfortable to receive gifts from people whom they are already close. They know that because of the relationship, the gifts that they receive are vested on pure intentions. They regard the act as a means of conveying care and attention.

The Real Concept of Receiving and Giving Gifts

In some surveys, almost 95% of women would really love to receive gifts during Valentine’s Day, whether or not it comes from an admirer, a suitor, boyfriend, husband, or mere sexual partner.

The point here is that because of the hype that the occasion creates, women tend to ask for some proofs that they are special. It is at this time of year that they do not want to feel deprived or unloved. In turn, gifts received by women on Valentine’s Day are considered as ego boosters.

In fact, several studies have proven that women wanted display their gifts publicly. They wanted their gifts to be a sign of affection and that the public should know something about it.

So if men would like to give gifts to women, it is important to consider the following factors:

1. Special occasions

For mere acquaintances, it would be more appropriate for men to give gifts to women during special occasions like Valentine’s Day. In this way, women will automatically accept the thought that they are special and that the intentions are purely based on the situation.

2. Length of dating

Some people say that it would be better for a man to start giving gifts to his date after three months of dating. They contend that by this time, familiarity had been established and the probability of obtaining intimate relationship is higher.

Hence, women would feel less insulted because they could already associate the act with the sense of feeling special.

The bottom line is that the concept of men giving gifts to women is not such a bad act. What should be noted here is that men should at least try to patiently wait for the appropriate time to give gifts to women to establish a harmonious relationship.

Keep in mind that dating is a quest that compensates endurance.

You’ve gone through the dating scene and enjoyed it. Some of your friends are starting to settle down and get married. This is the time in your life you may now ask the question, which is on every lip: “Why marry?”

The reasons are countless. Not every reason, however, would suit you.

Perhaps we should thumb through a working check list. Write down any reasons that appeal to you.

Greater Comfort

There is no question that marriage can give a man greater creature comforts. The familiar picture of the devoted wife, the pipe and slippers, and the tender loving care is all too true in many cases, and can last for months.

If you have no good clubs, service apartments or hotels in your neighborhood consider this seriously.

After children arrive, of course, you will have to shift-for yourself. You will then be physically uncomfortable a greater part of the time. But in many cases the sacrifice is worth it.

More Companionship

The married man is never lonely. There are people around all the time, especially after the arrival of children.

In fact, many husbands and fathers have not had a moment to themselves for years.

The selfish husband who expects companionship from his wife, however, will be disappointed. The first wife, as he will see, must work fourteen to sixteen hours a day and has little time to be a companion to her husband.

Don’t be unreasonable. If you want the companionship primarily of adult females, by all means stay single. Find reliable unattached girls with similar hobbies and you will have companionship galore.

The Joys of Children

Children are certainly a great joy. This is particularly true of other people’s children.

To enjoy them fully, encourage brothers, sisters, or close friends to marry and procreate. It is the uncle or trusted friend who sees children at their best. They will be clean, well-dressed, well-behaved, and with their company manners.

A gift or two may spoil them a little, but will go a long way toward making the non-father loved and admired. Romp with them freely. It will do you no harm if the children are well trained, and will be appreciated by the youngsters.

Grandchildren are best. To the grandfather go all the advantages of having children without any of the drawbacks.

How to have grandchildren without going through the occasionally messy process of having children first is a task we have thrown to our researchers.

Self Duplication

You probably feel, as so many men do, that your own qualities are unique and wonderful, and that there should be someway of making more of you. There is.

If you can get used to children, and have enough of them you may find one, which recaptures some of your points.

Though there are other ways of having children, marriage is the only one that is socially acceptable. Get married and before you know it the little ones will be on their way.

Longer Life

Any set of life insurance figures will show you that married men live longer than unmarried ones. This is true.

What it means is that the men who choose to marry are the longer-lived types, paradoxically enough the less adventurous and more sedentary. This is because of the popular misconception that married life is quieter and more settled.

Getting married will not actually make you live longer. It will shorten your life. But once again, in many cases it is worth it.

Marriage is a very important decision so mull over these reasons before you take the plunge.